In many communities, domestic violence and family abuse in general is a major issue, with the subject drawing attention from many stakeholders in the therapy and social sectors. Two such writers are mentioned in the articles entitled “Two-parent households can be lethal” and the article “Michael Benjamin Ryan and Michael John Ryan.” The New York Times and the StoryCorps, Inc. website are the two articles that will be included in the study. The services concentrate on how family conflicts are viewed in the family and how the lives of the children involved in the domestic environment can be described. One notable feature from both articles is that they are directed at the same theme of family violence where the woman is subjected to harassment and torture by the husband. The article by StoryCorps is described through a narrative in a conversation style from a father to his son how Ryan ended up witnessing his mother being beaten by his father. The violence would make Ryan uncomfortable and he often looked for a way to escape witnessing the torture and he got involved in games outside the house or get to his books, just to avoid seeing thee torture. He also tells his son how he adored his grandmother because he loved her so much. The same scenario is presented in the article featured in The New York Times where the author describes that through his research, he found that many women were subjected to torture by their intimate partner. The cases presented by Shoener is thus similar basing on the fact that women are the ones oppressed in many cases because she justifies the finding by the report that two-third of women often face some form of abuse in the relationship. Thus, overall, it is noted that both articles focus on the fact that women are the oppressed gender as opposed to men, who are often dominant and oppressive in nature.
The other element that is apparent from both articles is the finding that in many cases, the outcomes are hurting to children. It is plausible to assume that the attention that is placed on the issue of domestic violence in the family is more to do with the impact on children more than on the parties that are involved. In fact, the general impression is that the oppressed often remain in marriage because they think that their lives including that of their children would be much better when in a two-parent setting as opposed to being raised by on parent. It is a case that is particularly relevant in the article featured in the New York Times because of the mindset that many societies have about being raised by singles mothers. As a result, many people are often involved in oppressive marriages because they live with the hope that the families offer a much better outcome in the long run as opposed to leading a secluded single life later. The outcome is that many women fail to end the relationship with their oppressors in the hope that they will be better, unaware of the adverse effects on the children. The same effect is noted in Ryan’s story of his life to his son because it appears that the mother never intended to leave the marriage despite the fact that she as facing oppression. It underscores the fact that many women often find it appropriate to stay in oppressive marriages because of their personal hopes and the thought that they will be worse of and hated by the community they walked away.
Lastly, another basis to differentiate the two articles is from the finding that the authors noted that the mindset of the women defined the way the children turned out to be in the end. While the article by Shoener creates the impression that there is a futile outcome for children raised in oppressive families, the alternative resource points out to a positive outcome. The New York Times paper states that children who are victims of an abusive parental relationship have problems developing regarding their esteem and social abilities. However, the effect that is described by StoryCorps Inc. is contradictory because it portends to a better future for the children because of the assumption that children like Ryan end up being more resilient and learn from the mistakes of their parents and hence become better.
In summary, it is worth emphasizing that the subject of the effect of domestic violence on the children has been of interest from many parties. The two articles used in the analysis indicate that the similarities in opinion are based on the fact that women are the oppressed gender in many cases and that there is a general notion that being enduring to a marriage will make things better. However, the papers differ basing on the fact that there are varied outcomes because while StoryCorps Inc. report futility, Shoener portends a better future for the kids growing up in oppressive families.
Shoener, Sara. “Two-Parent Households Can Be Lethal.” The New York Times (2014): n. pag. Web.
StoryCorps Inc. “Michael Benjamin Ryan and Michael John Ryan.” StoryCorps, Inc. (2017): n. pag. Web.